When our friends at Dame recently appeared on “Megyn Kelly TODAY” to talk about the pleasure gap, we knew the term had officially gone mainstream. And for good reason. The statistics on how often women reach orgasm compared to men are striking, especially in heterosexual relationships. And yet, to many women this news isn't all that surprising. Why is that? And what can we do to elevate and validate women's pleasure?

Spring is in full swing here in the Pacific Northwest and nearly all our favorite bulbs and flowering trees have blossomed. That means summer is just around the corner!

If you’re a planner like me, you’re probably already scoping out what’s happening in your city this summer, and marking up your calendar with everything you want to do. Why not plan a special night out (or several) with your special someone? Here are six ideas to get you started.

*What if you’re single? Honestly, these are all great activities to plan with a friend, too. Get out there and seize the summer!