Making Love Sustainable

  • Apr212017

    Finding Time for Love

    “There is more to life than increasing its speed.”  Mohandas K. Gandhi As I write this, I am flying over…

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  • Apr142017

    Creating a Culture of Consent

    “A consent culture is a society that values and promotes consensual sex, condemns rape and supports survivors of sexual violence…”…

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  • Apr072017

    Welcoming the Spring with a Kiss

    “Kisses are a better fate than wisdom.”  e.e. cummings Days are becoming balmy, daylight lasts into evening, and the flowering…

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  • Mar302017

    Why I Make Good Lube

    “There may be nothing more joyful, more intimate than the wonder of two bodies discovering the wonder of gliding smoothly…

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  • Mar242017

    Growing Into Your Sexual Self

    “Most people are mirrors, reflecting the moods and emotions of the times; few are windows, bringing light to bear on…

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  • Mar102017

    Reigniting pleasure

    I spent last weekend with hundreds of new mothers and their babies at the Mommycon Chicago conference. I was invited…

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  • Feb242017

    Our Time to Love the Earth

    “The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the…

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  • Feb172017

    3 Rules To Make Up A Valentine’s Day Disaster

    Didn’t have the Valentine’s Day you hoped for? Here’s 3 Rules for not making it worse. Post Valentine’s Day can…

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  • Feb102017

    3 Ways Not To Be Disappointed This Valentine’s Day

    “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” Lao Tzu There are more…

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  • Feb032017

    3 Ways To Welcome Non-Ordinary Sex

    “The way you make love is the way God will be with you.”  Rumi One of the great mysteries in life…

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  • Jan272017

    4 Ways To Turn On Arousal

    ‘I tell you, the more I think, the more I feel that there is nothing more truly artistic than to…

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  • Jan202017

    4 Ways to Clarify our Pleasure

    “More important than the quest for certainty is the quest for clarity.” -Francois Gautier While we all want pleasure, most of…

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  • Jan162017

    Own Your Orgasm: Gender, Pleasure, and Closing The Gap

    When it comes to sex, our society has two narratives for young women. It begins with the basics: contraceptives and…

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  • Jan132017

    Seeking Orgasmic Pleasure

    “The pleasure of living and the pleasure of the orgasm are identical. Extreme orgasm anxiety forms the basis of the…

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  • Jan062017

    Seeking True Pleasure

    “Pleasure is the object, duty and the goal of all rational creatures.”  -Voltaire The New Year is a good time…

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