Making Love Sustainable

  • Oct022006

    Oiling Joints and Melding Hearts

    Sex has a way of softening limbs, oiling joints and melding hearts. We burrow in closer wrapping arms and legs…

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  • Oct012006

    Better Sex with Exercise

    There are a few important things to say about exercise and love. The first is that working hard in strengthening…

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  • Sep282006

    Amazing Stats on the O

    This is dangerous ground to tread so I will go softly, but there is a crisis at hand so the…

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  • Sep282006

    When You Can’t Love Yourself First

    It is hard to love anyone, when you are feeling no love for yourself. There are a million and one…

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  • Sep252006

    We Are Herd Animals

    Some days, try as you might, the weight of all the promises yet to keep is almost unbearable.  I work…

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  • Sep242006

    Inventing a Language for Sex

    I rarely speak directly about sex. I feel like I am still inventing a language that I can use comfortably…

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  • Sep212006

    It Won’t Make You Happy, It Will Teach You to Love

    I read yet another memoir in this month’s issue of More magazine about the dissolution of yet another marriage. This…

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  • Sep202006

    Sharing a Bed

    Interesting article in the New York Times today about the People who share a bed and the things they say…

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  • Sep192006

    Fantasies: The Answer to Inhibition

    “If sexual fantasies are imagination’s answer to inhibition, a sense of humor is its secret weapon.”  -Unknown Great summary of…

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  • Sep182006

    The Thrill of Making Love

    “i like my body when it is with your body.  It is so quite a new thing. Muscles better and…

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  • Sep142006

    Secrets of Happily Married Men

    I really enjoy reading books for men by men about relationships. It totally confirms for me what I learned when…

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  • Sep132006

    Are You a DINS?

    What about all these DINS out there- have you heard of that group yet? Worse still, are you a member?…

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  • Sep132006

    Giving Up the Mood Thing

    I often tell clients and customers to give up the idea of being in the mood. I feel fortunate to…

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  • Nov162005

    Making Love Sustainable

    Sustainability is the catch phrase of this generation, it means learning how to use current resources in a way that…

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