Making Love Sustainable

  • Sep022016

    Quantity vs Quality: The Sex App Game

    “Sex has become so meaningless, she sees french kissing as a much more intimate act.” –The Rise of The Half-Night Stand,…

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  • Aug262016

    Expecting Pleasure

    “We erase female pleasure…it puts girls not only at a disadvantage in terms of having a satisfying sexual experience but…

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  • Aug192016

    The Sensations Of Pleasure

    “What we learn with pleasure we never forget.”  Alfred Mercier Learning to feel pleasure begins with cultivating our capacity to…

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  • Aug122016

    Self-Pleasure – 4 Ways To Be Sexier

    “The only thing about masturbation to be ashamed of is doing it badly.” –Sigmund Freud Shared pleasure depends on one’s…

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  • Aug052016

    3 Ways to Feel More Pleasure

    “Pleasure is the object, duty and the goal of all rational creatures.”  Voltaire Bathe in your senses Pleasure is entirely…

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  • Jul292016

    The Freedom to Teach

    The night of my fiftieth birthday party in late October was unseasonably warm. I wanted to be sure and remember the…

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  • Jul222016

    Prayer: an Ultimate Freedom

    “The spirit down here in man and the spirit up there in the sun, in reality are only one spirit,…

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  • Jul152016

    Safe Words and The Freedom To Speak

    “Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” MLK, Jr. All of the things…

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  • Jul082016

    Three Ways To Stop Clinging To Your Plans

    “Joy is being willing for things to be as they are.”  -Charlotte Joko Beck I am not much of a…

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  • Jul012016

    4 Ways to Become Sexually Free

    “Seek freedom and become captive of your desires. Seek discipline and find your liberty.”  -Frank Herbert We often confuse the idea…

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  • Jul012016

    Introducing July’s Writing Contest: On Freedom

    In honor of the upcoming 2017 release of Wendy Strgar’s newest book Sex That Works: An Intimate Guide to Awakening…

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  • Jun242016

    Learning to Feel: 3 Ways to Save Your Sex Life

    “Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror… Just keep going. No feeling is final.”-Rainier Maria Rilke   We can’t…

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  • Jun172016

    Learning to Feel – In Sickness and in Health…

    “There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is…

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  • Jun102016

    Learning to Feel: The Stanford Sexual Assault

    “I was not only told that I was assaulted, I was told that because I couldn’t remember, I technically could…

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  • Jun072016
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    What does it mean to learn to feel?

    For me, learning to feel means learning to relax. Sometimes when I feel rushed or busy, I try to pull…

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