Making Love Sustainable

  • Jun032016

    Learning to Feel

    “The whole world is you, yet you keep thinking there is something else.” -Hsueh-Feng Lately, I have been taking a…

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  • May272016

    Meeting Grace and Frankie

    “Stuck in the middle with you….” A few months ago I got an email from Jane Fonda through an introduction…

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  • May202016

    The 4 Best Benefits of Masturbation

    “Masturbation: the primary sexual activity of mankind. In the nineteenth century it was a disease; in the twentieth, it’s a…

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  • May132016

    Is Masturbation a Healthy Part of your Relationship?

    “The only thing about masturbation to be ashamed of is doing it badly.” -Sigmund Freud It’s been over 20 years…

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  • May062016

    Making Peace in Mothering

    “A mother is not a person to lean on but a person to make leaning unnecessary.”  -Dorothy C. Fisher For me,…

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  • May042016

    Loving the Difficult (Mother)

    A few weeks ago I started to feel a heaviness in my lungs that I was sure was pneumonia. I…

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  • Apr292016

    The Dance: Why Letting Go Is Holding On

    “Goodbyes are only for those who love with their eyes. Because for those who love with heart and soul there…

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  • Apr222016

    Recalling Kindness

    “One day in retrospect the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful.” -Sigmund Freud Last week I…

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  • Apr152016

    Remembering and Forgetting

    “The most precious gift that marriage gave me was the constant impact of something very close and intimate, yet all…

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  • Apr082016

    Holding and Letting Go- Intimacy With Life’s Secret Ways

    “All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on.” -Havelock Ellis   Back in…

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  • Apr042016
    Boy watching TV

    How we all perpetuate Rape Culture & what we can do to stop

    In true late adopter fashion, I’ve finally jumped into watching “Game of Thrones” after, well, years of seeing headline after…

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  • Mar302016

    “Let Happiness Search for You”

    The title of this post is from an essay by Sparrow, a poet. I love this essay because I think…

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  • Mar282016

    The Conversations Which Shape A Healthful Sexuality

    “…the nearly $2 billion spent on abstinence only education over the past quarter-century may as well have been set on…

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  • Mar232016
    woman in bed

    Anal Sex, Oral Sex, and Long-Term Relationships

    I visited a friend for a night recently, and as usual we talked about sex. She told me that she and…

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  • Mar212016
    fishing alone

    What Do You Need to be Happy?

    Maybe you think you need a vacation. Maybe you think you need certain kinds of food, or a certain amount…

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