Day 97: Acceptance not Apathy - Good Clean Love

Day 97: Acceptance not Apathy

metam_acceptance“Some people confuse acceptance with apathy, but there’s all the difference in the world. Apathy fails to distinguish between what can and what cannot be helped; acceptance makes that distinction. Apathy paralyzes the will-to-action; acceptance frees it by relieving it of impossible burdens.” -Arthur Gordon

My contractor, Robert showed up to build the shelves we had planned out yesterday. He...

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Day 96: Got Hormones? - Good Clean Love

Day 96: Got Hormones?

 

g2241hormones“The truth is balance. However the opposite of truth, which is unbalance, may not be a lie.” -Susan Sontag

The word hormone comes from the Greek word ( ρμή ) which means “impetus”. The chemistry that we often walk around taking for granted is actually the impetus for most, if not all, of our daily functioning. Let me elaborate- our hormones control our growth and development, our metabolism,...

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Day 95: Another Way to Say Forgiveness - Good Clean Love

Day 95: Another Way to Say Forgiveness

51_forgiving550“Love is an act of endless forgiveness.” 
– Peter Ustinov

 

A lot of people struggle with the idea of resurrection. The literal religious telling of a man overcoming death, of his coming back amongst the living for 40 days to teach the most esoteric and divine lessons of his life is hard to grasp for many. It is the tale that divides the believers and non-believers most passionately. In fact,...

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Day 94: Pangs of Jealousy - Good Clean Love

Day 94: Pangs of Jealousy

1951521730589af2f4b2-main_full“Jealousy… is a mental cancer.” B.C. Forbes

Jealousy is a sneaky emotion that catches me off guard. I usually don’t see it coming and often, I must reflect quickly to find where my feelings of warmth and love turn bitter with envy. I believe that joy and pleasure shared doubles it, and usually feel gratified by the successes of my friends. When it comes over me I have learned to look for the...

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Nourishing Life - Good Clean Love

Nourishing Life

What more can you say about a life well lived than it was delicious? Pavarotti was quoted in his biography saying: “One of the very nicest things about life is the way we must regularly stop whatever it is we are doing and devote our attention to eating.”
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Obstacles to Intimate Conversation

Many people have trouble talking about sexual topics, including me. Thinking about how to recognize and overcome some of the following obstacles might help you develop an ease and vocabulary for having meaningful sexual conversations in your relationship or with your kids.

“Love is the answer, but while you are waiting for the answer sex raises some pretty good questions” -Woody Allen

Many...

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Day 92: Fear: False Evidence Appearing Real - Good Clean Love

Day 92: Fear: False Evidence Appearing Real

big-wave“The wise man in the storm prays God, not for safety from danger, but for deliverance from fear. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Fear is the most basic of emotional responses. It is an experience that universally defines life, in most all its forms, from tiny insect to full grown men. Animals of all sizes are wired first through their fears. Humans are perhaps the only species that has the potential...

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Day 91: Life Goes On - Good Clean Love

Day 91: Life Goes On

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947511170_dea998692f“In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on.” Robert Frost

We see the world changing around us every day, whether it is just through a quick glance of seasons emerging and falling away, or in the height of a child, or the decline of an old neighbor. Life is a testimonial to impermanence. Even as we bear witness to the brevity of most any circumstance, we grieve...

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Day 90: The Breath of Life - Good Clean Love

Day 90: The Breath of Life

1349353-lg“We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature – trees, flowers, grass- grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence… We need silence to be able to touch souls.” Mother Teresa

The most important experiences that I have now are the ones in which I am able to find in dynamic stillness....

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