Fall in Love Again - Good Clean Love

Fall in Love Again

by Anastasia Strgar

Falling in love is so great, isn’t it? You can’t see the other person’s faults and you are merely open and engaged in their best qualities. They are funny, charming, honest, respectful and truly interested in getting to know you… You want to be a better person for them because they’re so awesome.

Unfortunately, it can’t stay this way forever. Eventually, the veil gets torn...

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Outercourse – The Cure for Painful Intercourse

“Sexual pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon.”   -Simone de Beauvoir

Driving my son and his friends in the car the other day from a basketball game I overheard the question that made me cringe decades ago, “ How far did you get?” said one to the other with an elbow to the ribs. I shouldn’t have let on that I was listening, but I felt obliged to tell them that...

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The Joy of Playing in Love

by Anastasia Strgar

Okay, so I’ll just admit that recently I’ve started experimenting with fantasy when I make love. And I’ve discovered that I get amazing results. While I’m still pretty new at this and they haven’t really morphed out of setting me and my partner into different exotic scenarios, I find I feel sexier when I imagine us making love on a tropical beach or in a castle tower than...

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A Great Sex Life with Lou Paget

Join best selling author and sex educator Lou Paget share the secrets of a great sex life which she has learned in her world wide sexual seminars. With a keen ability to listen for the questions under the questions, Lou provides not only the tips and techniques that can improve your sex life right now, but is able to provide the assurances and calm that allow for a deeper look into the mystery of...

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Gratitude in Unexpected Connection

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“Join me in the pure atmosphere of gratitude for life.” -Hafiz

I was an exhibitor at a national tradeshow for adult novelty this weekend. My work in sexual health and building the Good Clean Love brand has been more in the natural product industry and in medical circles where just uttering the words oral and sex together was sometimes looked on with suspicion. I have only recently been finding a...

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Understanding Sexual Curiosity: What It Means for You - Good Clean Love

Understanding Sexual Curiosity: What It Means for You

The only thing about masturbation to be ashamed of is doing it badly. " -Sigmund Freud If ever there were a place in life to allow our curiosity free reign, it would be in the realm of our sexual exploration. Becoming curious is a powerful antidote to both the fear and the shame that has long shadowed both the desire and experience of pleasure. Indeed, there are many sexual educators and therapists that consider the ability to self-pleasure as the cornerstone of sexual health.
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Boost Relationship Communication: Tips for Shared Responsibilities

"I like hugs and I like kisses, but what I really love is help with the dishes!" ~Author UnknownFor years the most significant and unresolved conflict that lived between my husband and I had to do with the division of labor in our home. In fact, this is one of the top mechanisms of dissatisfaction and ultimate destruction of many long-term partnerships. For most couples, establishing a balance to working...
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Other Penetrating Ideas

“The greatest mistake of penetration is not to have fallen short, but to have gone too far.” -Francois de la Rochefoucald

In recent years anal sex seems to have come out of the closet with more people, both gay and straight. More and more people are asking questions and admitting to having tried and liked it than ever before. This of course begs the question, are more people talking about anal sex...

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Experience the Sounds of Pleasure: Discover Joy

By Wendy Strgar"How silver-sweet sound lovers' tongues by night,Like softest music to attending ears!" -William ShakespeareRemember the hushed make-out sessions of your youth? Rarely did we allow ourselves to sound out our pleasure lest our parents would hear. For many of us, not wanting others to hear any evidence of our intimate encounters still carries some left over shame that keeps a heavy lid on our ability to experience our own pleasure decades later. After our parents, it was the neighbors, after the neighbors, it was the kids….
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