Good Clean Reads

Lubrication is one of the simplest and most effective ways to make intimacy more enjoyable. And even though our bodies naturally produce lubrication, it isn’t always enough. Hormonal changes, stress, medication, or simply wanting a little more glide are all good reasons to reach for lube!

Tap into the ancient wisdom of Eastern philosophy with author and physician, Paul Dugliss, M.D as he discusses how to digest your emotional experiences and heal your body and life journey. Ayurveda is one of the most ancient forms of healing on the planet with millions of people enjoying the benefits of Yoga. This holistic approach to healing your emotional history is a time tested cure for...

by Duncan Roy

The Fix Magazine

Gay men find it impossible to stay sober. They relapse again and again. The reason is clear: sex. Sexual addiction. I am not suggesting that all gay men who claim that they are alcoholic are in fact sex addicts but most gay men who can’t stay sober cite sex as the primary reason for relapse.

The simple fact of the matter is that most of the time, readily available...

Yoga is one of the world’s fastest growing health and fitness activities with 20 million people in the US and over 250 million around the world practicing it every day.  Its ancient roots go back to 2500 BCE.  Don’t miss this enlightening conversation with William Broad, Pulitzer Prize winning author and lead science writer for the New York Times, share his discoveries about the surprising...

One of my  oldest friendships ended yesterday with the premature death of my friend, Janice.  She was just shy of her 58^thbirthday, a day exactly two weeks before mine. I feel her all around me today. She is probably happy now to be free from her cancer-ridden body and all of the physical constraints that tethered her endless sense of beauty and spirituality to the ground. She held on loosely to...

“His expression pulls at that dark part of me, buried in the depths of my belly- my libido, woken and tamed by him, but even now, insatiable.”  -E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey

The story that has shifted the mainstream consciousness of sexuality is about a young beautiful virgin, who doesn’t recognize her own beauty and a deeply troubled young man, that channels his childhood pain and extreme...

Have you ever longed for a soul mate? Co- Authors and life partners Mali Apple and Joe Dunn break down the elements of turning your relationships into a Soulmate Experience. Approaching your relationship without expectation and judgment allows your relationship to thrive. They discuss all the hot buttons of jealousy, fear and manipulation and how changing your perspective on how you love can bring...

If modern day politics and the increasingly large polarization that is dominating rhetoric has anything to teach, it is this: there are no solutions to be found when we are asking the wrong questions. Demanding answers to the wrong questions is a practice that often get trained into us in our personal lives. The wrong questions are easily identified as a product of our fears and judgments. At...

Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach To Couples Therapy® (PACT) which integrates neuroscience, infant attachment, arousal regulation, and therapeutic enactment applied to adult primary attachment relationships.
He speaks to professional audiences on subjects of couples therapy and preventative psychotherapy through early...

I have been with my partner for over ten years. Our sexual relationship has been positive and balanced until this last year when my wife’s sex drive has dropped to almost nothing. I am afraid to even bring up the topic because it just turns the rest of our relationship sour for days. I know that this is not a fidelity issue, but I don’t know what to do. I am not ready to give up my sexual life and...