What Kind of Lube Should I Use? - Good Clean Love

What Kind of Lube Should I Use?

Lubrication is one of the simplest and most effective ways to make intimacy more enjoyable. And even though our bodies naturally produce lubrication, it isn’t always enough. Hormonal changes, stress, medication, or simply wanting a little more glide are all good reasons to reach for lube!

 

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Understanding Fear of Abandonment: Trauma Support & Impact

Perhaps the single most devastating emotional pain we suffer is the fear of abandonment. Millions of children know this experience as their primary relationship to their parents, and the effects are wide-ranging and long-lasting. Abandonment is rarely about the person being left, it is most always a reflection of what is broken in the person doing the leaving. Yet the abandoned person rarely perceives this, instead the message of unworthiness and the belief of being fundamentally unlovable is planted deep inside of us. Almost like a dormant genetic trait in the human genome, most of us seem to carry the potential for this erroneous belief. Tragically, most of us also have plenty of opportunities that trigger it.
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Using Behavioral Engagement with Dr. Georgianna Donadio

Changing our behavior is the spring of our human potential. And yet, many of us suffer with debilitating health conditions and painful relationships due to behaviors that feel stuck and unmovable. Listen as Georgianna Donadio shares the power of simple techniques for Behavioral Engagement. Transform your relationships to your loved ones and to life itself by bringing your full attention and...

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The Benefits of Taking a Tech Holiday

 “When things come at you very fast, naturally you lose touch with yourself.” ~Marshall McLuhan

It is hard to imagine that we have already come full circle in our relationship to technology. The relentless drive for more access, smaller devices and ever increasing speed is hitting a wall for many of us. Yet, it isn’t so surprising that the wonder has worn thin when you consider the sheer number of...

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Positivity in Action- Positivity Training in Schools

I see a new professional track developing for me. Although I have only taught lessons on positive thinking a dozen times, I can imagine teaching these lessons a hundred more. Kids of all ages were as surprised as I was to learn that 95% of the 50-60,000 thoughts humans have each day were exactly the same as the day before and that 80% of those thoughts are negative. This is why it is so hard for...

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Learning to Own your Gifts with Alexandra Franzen

Don’t miss this conversation with Alexandra Franzen where we go deep and wide into the beauty of calling a thing by it’s real name, especially as it applies to oneself. Learning to speak your own truth and own your gifts is a different kind of life, one worth cultivating. Alexandra does that and more for her clients who use her unique listening, visioning and creating to break their own sound...

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Celebrating 28 Years: A Home for Honeybees

“The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.” -Theodore Hesburgh

 

Saturday marked the 28thyear of my marriage; we celebrated by going to pick up six pounds of honeybees. I have been building their hives for the last month and my husband has been studying bee books. The balance of our talents and how our energy manifests was at one time a continuous source of...

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Killing Time

As if you could kill time without injuring eternity.”  ~Henry David Thoreau, “Economy,” Walden, 1854

 

Our time is our life. How we spend the hours of our days is the truest measure of what we create, what we value and how we invest our life energy. This is why the recent statistics regarding the social takeover of Internet gaming and social media should give us pause for wonder and concern....

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Get Whip Smart With Melissa Febos

Discover the secret and dark side of the life of a sexual dominatrix through the voice of Melissa Febos, author of
Whip Smart: The true story of a secret life. Melissa shares the power struggles she had with her self
as she wandered into the deep psychological work, that is played out in a sex dungeon. She tells an honest story of the mix of power, curiosity and impoverishment that was generated by...

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Facebook: Anxiety-Feeding Addiction

“There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the best of us, that it hardly becomes any of us to talk about the rest of us.” ~Edward Wallis Hoch

 

My teenage daughter has removed herself from Facebook. Her cold-turkey drop of a technology that had dominated many of her free hours caught my attention. “I noticed how anxious it makes me,” she replied simply when I asked why. “I just...

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