Good Clean Reads

Lubrication is one of the simplest and most effective ways to make intimacy more enjoyable. And even though our bodies naturally produce lubrication, it isn’t always enough. Hormonal changes, stress, medication, or simply wanting a little more glide are all good reasons to reach for lube!

“There are times when the actual experience of leaving something makes you wish desperately that you could stay, and then there are times when the leaving reminds you a hundred times over why exactly you had to leave in the first place.”  -Shauna Niequist

Leaving is bittersweet. Knowing when to leave is not always a simple equation. Even the departing itself is rarely an experience of simple...

Increase your sexual intelligence and get what you really want from sex. Listen to Dr. Marty Klein explain how for many people sex is an opportunity to fail, and for even more of them – not failing is the best that sex ever gets…Rethink the meaning of sex in your life and watch it change your ability to find what you most want out of your intimate life. Dr. Marty Klein is the most articulate and...

As I mentioned before, I have been taking positivity into the world. The volunteer project consuming most of  my time this year has been at my child’s high school.

I love kids. They are so awake and honest and their affections or disappointment is real and immediate. Our group holds more than fifty kids, all of whom I adore. Many have been close with my children for many years. Watching kids grow...

“If we are facing in the right direction, all we have to do is keep on walking.”  ~Buddhist Proverb

Working as I have for decades on learning how to sustain and nourish lasting relationships has brought me continuously back to the same question of how to learn to stay both in my own relationships as well as in many others that I have counseled. Usually the question is a reflection of the...

If you have ever felt like a complete idiot when it comes to creating healthy relationships or using tantra techniques to take your intimate life to the next level,  don’t miss this talk with Dr Judywho has been helping people solve their relationship and intimacy issues for decades on her own syndicated radio show. Whether offering tips for working with orgasmic challenges or emotional hurdles,...

I admire people that are trying to make the world better.  It takes so much energy to pay attention and come to a clear understanding of the real issues and, as much opening, to come up with solutions. This is particularly true about sexual matters because we all carry around so much baggage, much of it invisible even to us.

It is surprisingly not uncommon to not know why you are behaving the way...

Listen as author Jim Wysong, shares his hard won wisdom of confronting and overcoming the challenges of being male in today’s society. His new book,  The Neutering of the American Male, offers an healthy alternative to the doom and gloom media predictions of the end of men in American society. Jim argues that the changing societal conditions demand a new balance of love and respect between the...

It has become exceedingly clear that the only way I will ever make progress in turning my 500-plus pages of Positivity Quest blog into a book is to do it everyday, just like I wrote the blog. It must be like a new resolution that at least five days a week,  something is adjusted to fit into the new manuscript.

Unfortunately, when you are looking at a mountain of paper it is hard to know where to...