Good Clean Reads

Lubrication is one of the simplest and most effective ways to make intimacy more enjoyable. And even though our bodies naturally produce lubrication, it isn’t always enough. Hormonal changes, stress, medication, or simply wanting a little more glide are all good reasons to reach for lube!

“When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.”  ~Kahlil Gibran

My youngest daughter can read me like a book. She knows my sorrow and always wants to fill me up when she sees it in how I stand, or in my eyes. For all my discussion of feeling your feelings and letting them wash over you, I too have my reticence...

“Get a good idea and stay with it. Dog it, and work at it until it’s done right.” -Walt Whitman

There is nothing that cheers me and sets me on course like a good idea. I love to ideate, imagining new realities happens in me often with out trying. Something changes inside of you when a good idea takes hold. Worry and anxiety about problems vaporize into a more solid energy of problem solving....

“Any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic.” -Arthur C. Clarke

Living with three teenagers and growing an internet business has kept me somewhat current with technology. Unlike many adults in my age range, I can see my way in and out of most social media, although I don’t spend much time there. Online friends are nice, but I have long preferred 3D relating as a way of...

“When we create something, we always create it first in a thought form. If we are basically positive in attitude, expecting and envisioning pleasure, satisfaction and happiness, we will attract and create people, situations, and events which conform to our positive expectations.” -Shakti Gawain

I have been studying my visioning board lately and realizing how much of my future I have already formed...

It has sometimes occurred to me when I explain how to use love products that I should have made my tagline: “More is Better” because when it comes to using great natural and organic intimacy products, that is the truth. Unlike other creams that...

“Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance, order, rhythm and harmony.” -Thomas Merton

One of my favorite childhood stories is the fable of the Tortoise and the Hare. Life mimics the idea that it is not always the fastest that wins the race; often it is enough to find a pace that you can maintain and have the courage and will to stay on track. Persistence and faith have staying power...

Tonight ushers in the Jewish new year, one of my favorite holy days because it is a celebration of spiritual renewal. Part of the service recognizes the work our hands have offered over the last year, and part looks forward to envisioning and embodying the self we have yet to uncover. This prayer felt like the truth in my own journey moving forward. I copied it down because I want to remember the...

Listen to Gina Ogden explore the Heart and Soul of Sex with Wendy this week. Her research on the immediate connection between love and intimacy is thought provoking and reassuring. In addition to great ideas for creating powerful rituals to revitalize the passionate side of life, this conversation explores the healing and vitality that comes from loving sex.

“Lack of activity destroys the good condition of every human being, while movement and methodical physical exercise save it and preserve it.” ~Plato

The best part of my day is when I exercise, and the truest thing you can say about the mystery we call a body is that it is designed to work at its optimal level in motion. Even when I am painfully facing my physical limits in my early morning Pilates...