Day 162: Setting Boundaries - Good Clean Love

Day 162: Setting Boundaries

boundaries“Your boundaries are the measure of your friendship with yourself.”

An old friend once told me that your boundaries are the truest measure of how you love yourself. I thought I understood the meaning at the time. Raising four children should have bestowed on me a mastery of setting limits and protecting my personal space over the last two decades. It hasn’t. I realized that the places where...

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Day 161: Patience - Good Clean Love

Day 161: Patience

3191450897_117970750e“The key to everything is patience. You get the chicken by hatching the egg, not by smashing it.” Arnold H. Glasgow

There are still moments when something inside me refuses to just go with it. Air travel provokes some deep seated impatience in me. I am spending eight hours connecting and reconnecting to go a distance that should take two and half flight hours. Boarding, de-boarding and sitting...

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Day 160: Prepared - Good Clean Love

Day 160: Prepared

business-meeting“Success always comes when preparation meets opportunity” -Henry Hartman

I am getting ready for a very exciting opportunity tomorrow. I have a meeting with a large chain store buyer to inspire him about the virtues and potential of Good Clean Love products in his stores. I have been envisioning this meeting for years, taking the steps and preparing all the way, so that I can go into the...

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Day 159: ‘Til You Love it Away - Good Clean Love

Day 159: ‘Til You Love it Away

“It’s so easy to think of the days gone by,

It’s a hard thing to think of the days to come,

But the grace to accept every moment as a gift

Is a gift that is given to some.

(Refrain) What can you do with your days, but work and hope

That your dreams bind your work to your play

What can you do

Every moment of your life, but

Love til you love it away.

There are sorrows enough for the whole...

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Day 158: Best Friend Sunday - Good Clean Love

Day 158: Best Friend Sunday

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best-of-friends-poster-c10048568“My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me.” -Henry Ford

We are not given many best friends in a life. Even if you don’t ascribe to the belief in reincarnation, there is something unique and extraordinary about how a best friend hears exactly what you mean when you speak. They laugh at all the right moments and can crack your heart open just by the tilt of their head in the middle...

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Day 157: Humanity In The Airports - Good Clean Love

Day 157: Humanity In The Airports

bwi-airport-address“Individually, we are one drop. Together, we are an ocean.” -Ryunosuke Satoro

For me there is probably not a more intense interaction that I can have with humanity than when I become an air traveler. While I am intellectually conscious of the enormity of the world’s population, it is when I move through airports that I experience the vastness of humanity trying to move through space. It is in...

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Day 156: Leaving On A Jet Plane - Good Clean Love

Day 156: Leaving On A Jet Plane

airplane2“I travel not to go anywhere, but to go. I travel for travel’s sake. The great affair is to move. ~Robert Louis Stevenson

 

This is a very quick quest as night time is brief. I leave in the middle of the night to go see my oldest and dearest friend in the city where I spent the first decade of my adulthood. Leaving home is increasingly challenging for me as I have come to treasure the comforts of...

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Calling It Quits

woman-leaving“Most people give up just when they’re about to achieve success. They quit on the one yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game, one foot from a winning touchdown.” –Ross Perot

This week’s announcement about the end of the 40-year marriage of Al and Tipper Gore caught me off guard. I am sure I wasn’t the only one surprised by them calling it quits. They were one political couple whose...

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Day 155: Riding the Wave - Good Clean Love

Day 155: Riding the Wave

verybigwave_jpg“What we call the beginning is often the end. And to make an end is to make a beginning. The end is where we start from.” -T.S. Eliot

It is one month to the day of my still surprising upset victory at the Willamette Angel Conference. Every day seems a new beginning to my business, which is in the process of re-invention. The angel conference has cast a bright light around this love business...

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