An Introduction to Feminist Pornography with Candida Royalle

Listen to the director’s side of feminist pornography with Candida Royalle, founder of Femme Productions and pioneer of feminist erotica produced by and for women and couples. In addition to hearing about the best of her 18 films which she wrote, directed and produced, we also talk about her inspiration and experience that was behind her book How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do: Sex Advice From a...

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Day 139: Mental/Sexual Health

0807-reasons-sex“The power of love to change bodies is legendary, built into folklore, common sense, and everyday experience. Love moves the flesh, it pushes matter around… Throughout history, “tender loving care” has uniformly been recognized as a valuable element in healing. ~Larry Dossey

Does mental health enhance sexual wellness? Does sexual wellness enhance mental health? Yes and yes. Creating your...

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Day 138: Angels Among Us - Good Clean Love

Day 138: Angels Among Us

ig1265“And the Angel said, ‘I have learned that every man lives, not through care of himself, but by love.'” -Leo Tolstoy

I have always believed in angels and I remember years ago, before I knew much of anything about investment conferences or business plans, that I would find an angel to help me make this business real. As the years wore on and the realities of business ventures and investment...

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Day 137: Negativity Blast

1159506205“They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.” -Carl W. Buechner

I have been organizing a 6thgrade basketball team for my youngest daughter this spring. I have seen my fair share of the antics and intensity that accompanies youth sports over many years as my boys have competed at high levels in everything from soccer to tennis to basketball. Today was a...

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Day 136: Showing Up

otherness“Eighty percent of success is showing up.” Woody Allen

The most positive thing you can do with your life is to show up consistently and authentically. It seems like stating the obvious, but in day-to-day life there are more people who check out of their relationships and quit on their commitments than you would think. Sometimes this is a conscious choice, but more often it is the small...

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Day 135: Exhausted Afterglow - Good Clean Love

Day 135: Exhausted Afterglow

sleeping_beauty_polar_bear-1600x1200“Happiness does not come from doing easy work but from the afterglow of satisfaction that comes after the achievement of a difficult task that demanded our best.” -Theodore Isaac Rubin

I should actually feel happier than I do tonight. The intensity of preparation and the work is over, at least for the weekend. All kinds of accolades from acquaintances and friends far and near came through today....

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The Sweet Taste of Success

I'm the Best“The spirit, the will to win, and the will to excel are the things that endure. These qualities are so much more important than the events that occur.”-Vince Lombardi

Winning feels a bit like a hallucination. I am so accustomed to the doing and the trying that for so long has characterized the incremental progress of Good Clean Love that being recognized as a winner feels a bit foreign. I won the...

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Day 134: Taste of Success - Good Clean Love

Day 134: Taste of Success

CB038011“Success means doing the best we can with what we have. Success is the doing, not the getting; in the trying, not the triumph. Success is a personal standard, reaching for the highest that is in us, becoming all that we can be.” -Zig Ziglar

Success feels a bit like a hallucination. I am so accustomed to the doing and the trying that for so long has characterized the incremental progress of Good...

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Day 133: Already Won - Good Clean Love

Day 133: Already Won

success_leap“The spirit, the will to win, and the will to excel are the things that endure. These qualities are so much more important than the events that occur.” -Vince Lombardi

Tomorrow is the big competition for the local Willamette Angel Conference, but in some ways after tonight’s VIP reception, I feel like I already won. First, how cool to be on the guest list of the VIP reception. Better still was...

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