What Kind of Lube Should I Use? - Good Clean Love

What Kind of Lube Should I Use?

Lubrication is one of the simplest and most effective ways to make intimacy more enjoyable. And even though our bodies naturally produce lubrication, it isn’t always enough. Hormonal changes, stress, medication, or simply wanting a little more glide are all good reasons to reach for lube!

 

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Day 129: Pitch Practice - Good Clean Love

Day 129: Pitch Practice

art-of-practicing“The truth is rarely pure and never simple.” Oscar Wilde

The day was consumed with preparing for one more speed pitch later this week as a finalist for the Willamette Angel conference. I should have been more prepared, but for last minute meetings that change the shape of the slide deck, now all my words are out of order. I work to stay calm and focused. I don’t want to add stress to my recent...

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Understanding the Michelangelo Effect: Meaning and Impact

"Love isn't an emotion or an instinct-it's an art. " -Mae WestDone with conviction and commitment, the way great artists approach their masterpieces, our loving relationships sculpt us into the highest and best form of ourselves. This is their only job and their highest purpose. Through love we entrust our loved ones to mirror and elicit from us the aspirations and values that we have expressed so that the commitment to the relationship transmutes into a commitment to ourselves.
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Day 128: A Blessing in the Woods - Good Clean Love

Day 128: A Blessing in the Woods

james-p-blair-woodland-path-winding-through-a-grove-of-sequoia-treesToday was a clear and beautiful spring day in the Willamette Valley, the kind that makes you reevaluate the idea of work and what we do with our time. The kind of cool breezes mixed with warm sun that calls you outside. I walked my funny dogs through the woods and listened to a poem by John O’Donohue called Beannacht, which means Blessing in Gaelic.

 

As I listened over and over again to the...

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Day 127: We Are Loved - Good Clean Love

Day 127: We Are Loved

eternal_mates_swan_pair-740216“The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved — loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.” -Victor Hugo

This is one of my favorite quotes of all time. It is the true state of things underneath all the layers that block our view. Interpersonal relationships are often the grounds around which people base their experience of loving. This is difficult because...

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Day 126: The Biology of Belief - Good Clean Love

Day 126: The Biology of Belief

 

dont_stop_believing_stop_sign1“…A genuine revolution in thought and understanding, one so radical that it can change the world.” Joseph Chilton Pearce

I had the pleasure and honor of chatting on my radio show with Bruce Lipton, Phd who is a professor of biology, researcher and recognized leader in the new biological sciences called epigenetics. His work serves as a doorway to the emerging understanding that all of our...

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An Introduction to Human Epigenetics with Bruce H. Lipton, Ph.D

Join this enlightening discussion about the crossroads of quantum physics and human biology with Bruce H. Lipton, Ph.D., author of best-selling The Biology of Belief. Bruce is an internationally recognized leader in bridging science and spirit together in the new biological understanding called human epigenetics. Learn how you can retrain our belief systems to create a healthy and vital belief...

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Day 125: For the Love of Food - Good Clean Love

Day 125: For the Love of Food

 

food“Tell me what you eat, and I’ll tell you what you are.” -Jean Anthelme Brillat-Savarin

Our diet is our life- it is the fuel that makes your days what they are. It is remarkable how few people understand this as evidenced by standing on line at any grocery store. The number of food items that are sold in mass proportion that have almost no food in them is mind boggling. Even my kids, who...

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Day 124: Epic Disasters - Good Clean Love

Day 124: Epic Disasters

oil-spill “There’s no disaster that can’t become a blessing, and no blessing that can’t become a disaster” -Richard Bach

The tragedy unfolding in the middle of the ocean is epic and will be recalled for generations. It will separate time for the survivors the way death changes the fabric of everything in a family. You adjust, but even a distant normal is a completely distinct period, a different life....

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Day 123: Healing Touch - Good Clean Love

Day 123: Healing Touch

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“Healing is a matter of time, but it is sometimes also a matter of opportunity.” Hippocrates

I was invited to participate in a community Healing Touchoffering. All you have to do is sign up and a certified practitioner spends 45 minutes sensing and balancing your energy through the laying of their hands on you. It doesn’t really matter what you believe about the metaphysics of energy work; the...

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