by Wendy Strgar January 16, 2010
The system reset button can be found in the center of an orgasm. It is a mysterious cascade of chemicals and reactions that are energetic but also biological. Think of the lucky among us who were conceived in the power of that center. I had several children arrive from the event. For many years my sex drive was often wrapped in my drive to procreate. The sex took a wild leap the year that I had two gold rings clamped around my fallopian tubes. As we settled into permanent contraception, something relaxed and the sex got adventurous.
I am overcome when I flash back to all the years ago that I first made love to my husband. Over 27 years of loving the same man and instead of becoming stale, the intimacy comes alive in deeper and deeper places. The ripples that reverberate through muscles and nerve endings in the build up and final release cycle of orgasms strikes a new balance between mind and body.
I am guessing you might have an idea on what’s on my mind on a Friday night. I count my lucky stars and feel some of the deepest gratitude in my body when I experience the deep physical love of my husband. I have been sharing a bed with him since I was 20. I started Good Clean Love to reignite the spark in our sex life . I would have to say with all objectivity that my love products have made a difference. My body desserts and love oils are the butters and sauces of a love connoisseur like love sauces and butters if you think of making love as a kind of epicurean art .
There is no better way to maintain your system than by regular tune-ups in the bedroom. Release into the full physical weight of living in a body and better still in the arms of someone who actually loves you is a good way to maintain a living and loving system. Remembering and celebrating how to love and experience pleasure with someone is the way to keep the engines of life humming.
Positivity ratio is high.
by Wendy Strgar May 22, 2018
There is no time like long summer nights to cultivate our uniquely, profoundly human capacity for pleasure, especially sexual pleasure. Our pleasure response transforms our relationship to each other and even to life itself. Focusing on pleasure not only changes how we see our opportunities for intimate connection, but also invites us into a deeper relationship with our erotic soul.
by Wendy Strgar May 17, 2018
It becomes hard to trust your own thinking when nothing seems to be working. The space between how I thought it would go and how it is going seems to widen in front of my eyes. Maybe most difficult of all is how often the undesirable outcomes around us spill over into our relationships, both at home and at work. An errant comment too easily turns into an argument. I become blind to my impact on people around me, caught up in the unresolved problems surrounding me. During times like these, we often underestimate the power of the choices we make and how it can create a path back towards what’s working or down the slippery slope of self-destruction, which my husband affectionately calls “flirting with the gutter.”
Here is my short list to making it better when it isn’t working at all. Each one helps you do the next one, so start at the beginning and work your way down.
by Wendy Strgar May 03, 2018