by Wendy Strgar December 21, 2010
“For each new morning with its light,
For rest and shelter of the night,
For health and food, for love and friends,
For everything Thy goodness sends.”
~Ralph Waldo Emerson
The lunar eclipse taking place tonight on the solstice beginning will not be witnessed again until sometime in the 2400s. Celebrating the incoming light and the wonder of living on earth in these remarkable life changing times feels like a recognition. It is celebration that is as planetary as it is personal. Giving thanks is an act of receiving. It is the whole body embrace of the goodness that makes the smallest events of life simultaneously simple and spectacular.
An ancient French proverb says, “Gratitude is the memory of the heart.” Tonight I am hosting one of my oldest friends who was my doula when my now 12-year-old was born. Now she visits with her little boys and I tease her about her dedication to nap schedules. She doesn’t remember how much she used to tease me. Time and love and growing up are the main course in life. Bearing witness and sharing ourselves ingrain life events deeply in our hearts. It is how we remember ourselves to love.
I created a candle light ritual tonight on the back porch to welcome in the longer light of the new days coming and to acknowledge the vast light that lives in, around and through me. I sang some old hymns that I used to put the kids to sleep with like Kumbaya with my daughter. Our voices were so clear in the night air. G.K. Chesterton said: “If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, “thank you,” that would suffice. I would maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought; and that gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder.”
I want to know more about the feeling of gratitude, to be able to recognize it when it is near. Better still, I want to learn to cultivate the sensations and appreciate them like the golden space of life that it is.
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I remember one of the fathers of a little girl on a soccer team I was coaching years ago who came out to me and told me he was going to go through a transgender process. We were friends, so I was able to ask him about his motivations to go through the painful and expensive process. He said he wanted to finally look how he felt.