by Wendy Strgar June 19, 2009
My wife used to love sex, but we had a baby six months ago, and she has since lost all interest. Will her sex drive ever come back?
The good news is that you can help her find her sexual interest. But don’t look in her diaper bag… it’s not there. It’s not unusual for a new mom to feel like her body and the focus of her attention belongs solely to the baby. Additionally, free time has diminished and she’s exhausted. If you want to seduce her, I recommend you help her with the household chores and the baby. Ask her what you can do to help while letting her know how much you miss making love to her.
Then, I suggest you hire a babysitter and get a room at a nice hotel where there are no signs of parenthood. While sexual drive after having a baby varies among women, it typically returns around six months. So, with patience, planning, and effort you’ll soon be having sex again…really.
by Wendy Strgar October 25, 2018
“It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” –Antoine de Saint-Exupery
We believe we are making it better by shielding ourselves from our own pain. This is a fool’s errand, for the pain we refuse to feel and acknowledge doesn’t dissipate from our lacking attention, but rather collects in our heart center with a weightiness that we often cannot name or discern. So fearful are we, of the potential of a broken heart, that we inadvertently refuse to open our hearts at all.
by Wendy Strgar September 13, 2018