by Wendy Strgar August 15, 2014
The truth is that we all fall short of our intentions a lot of the time, especially when it comes to our dedication to loving the people around us. We are blessed with these brilliant moments of inspiration that too often don’t come together in reality.
One of the most powerful antidotes to this pattern of unfulfilled love ideas is to share our commitment to become more loving with the people they care about most: See if this sweet reflection of sharing our loving intentions doesn’t inspire to get your love relationship signed up as Love Agents…
“I decided to share with my wife that I was challenging myself to be a Love Agent. At first I wanted to keep this a secret and try to work on spreading the love without telling her. I thought that it would be romantic if I increased the amount of love that I shared and the way that I shared it. After some more thought I realized that love is based on communication. This communication needs to start by opening myself and sharing all parts of myself with my wife. It felt good to tell her that I am a love agent, and that I was putting a priority on our relationship. She even got excited about it and is considering being a love agent too.”
Sign up here!
by Wendy Strgar May 17, 2018
It becomes hard to trust your own thinking when nothing seems to be working. The space between how I thought it would go and how it is going seems to widen in front of my eyes. Maybe most difficult of all is how often the undesirable outcomes around us spill over into our relationships, both at home and at work. An errant comment too easily turns into an argument. I become blind to my impact on people around me, caught up in the unresolved problems surrounding me. During times like these, we often underestimate the power of the choices we make and how it can create a path back towards what’s working or down the slippery slope of self-destruction, which my husband affectionately calls “flirting with the gutter.”
Here is my short list to making it better when it isn’t working at all. Each one helps you do the next one, so start at the beginning and work your way down.
by Wendy Strgar May 03, 2018
by Wendy Strgar April 26, 2018