Life That Works: Be of Service - Good Clean Love

Life That Works: Be of Service

"Service is the rent we pay for being. It is the very purpose of life, and not something you do in your spare time." -Marian Wright Edelman    Back at...
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Life that Works: Reinistating the Quest

“The unfortunate thing about this world is that good habits are so much easier to give up than bad ones.”  ~Somerset Maugham

Early on in my positivity quest I learned the power of daily habits. Our thoughts and words lead our daily actions and our actions repeated become the habits, which define not only our character but our destiny. The promise I made to myself to live consciously and to report...

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Life That Works: Nothing to Lose or Everything to Gain

By Wendy Strgar

“Courage is as often the outcome of despair as of hope; in the one case we have nothing to lose, in the other, everything to gain.”  -Diane de Pointers

There have only been only a handful of times in the journey of growing my business that I have come up against a wall where the choice of despair or hope in moving forward was the only one there was to make. Today was one of those...

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Life That Works: Quick Recovery - Good Clean Love

Life That Works: Quick Recovery

"Self-sabotage is when we say we want something and then go about making sure it doesn't happen."" -Alyce Cornyn-Selby I have been working on my book for 4 years. It...
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Life That Works: Self Forgiveness Again

“Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,

there is a field. I’ll meet you there.

When the soul lies down in that grass,

The world is too full to talk about.

Ideas, language, even the phrase each other

doesn’t make any sense.”     -Rumi

It is a gift to arrive in this field where your shortcomings and mistakes are part of a huge space that can hold them and transform them into steps on a path...

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Life That Works: Revisiting the Bracelet - Good Clean Love

Life That Works: Revisiting the Bracelet

"Good habits, once established are just as hard to break as bad habits." -Robert Puller Although it was a year ago and several beaded bracelets ago, today I found myself...
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Life That Works: Re-constructing Memory

“A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future.” -Lewis B Smedes

I still get stuck on some memories. It is almost as though my interpretation of some of my childhood is etched into my brain and each time I speak with or about certain old characters in my life, the old story...

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It’s Not a Feeling

“Happiness is a matter of one’s most ordinary and everyday mode of consciousness being busy and lively and unconcerned with self.” ~Iris Murdoch

Most of us share a common mis-perception about happiness. We expect to identify it through how we feel rather than viewing it as the perceptual frame of reference that it is. Oddly you could be quite happy at a work task and not feel happy at the moment...

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Life That Works: Positively Ill - Good Clean Love

Life That Works: Positively Ill

"A wise man should consider that health is the greatest of human blessings, and learn how by his own thoughts to derive benefit from his illnesses." -Hippocrates   Illness and...
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