“The act of loving in whatever form requires a willingness to experience both the pain and pleasure. This is the piece of sustaining loving relationships that is easy to miss, or at least misunderstand, and tragically the place where we walk away from the heart of what we want most.” Wendy Strgar,CEO, Founder, Loveologist
Both of Wendy Strgar’s books:Love That Works: A Guide to Enduring IntimacyandSex That Works:An Intimate Guide to Awakening Your Erotic Life inspire us to intentionally heal and strengthen our love relationships. Strgar, loving the same partner, her husband, for over forty years enjoys a passionate sex life and believes we all can, too. She wholeheartedly believes that love is a skill we can all learn. After all, not all of us were raised with a shining example of a healthy marriage. Strgar included.
In Love That Works: A Guide to Enduring Intimacy you will understand that the cultural myth of the perfect partner or soulmate is a distraction that keeps us from the real work of love. This book is dedicated to finding the many ways that love will sculpt you and your life into a work of art—one that is worthy of you and the one you love. Here, Strgar shares her insights as to why Americans seem to struggle more than other cultures with romantic relationships. The vital skills we need are like seeds they need to be cultivated. An enduring relationship grows with communication, by keeping your promises, controlling your thoughts instead of being controlled by them, and being a curious and willing lover. Strgar believes, “This Ecology of Love is the natural habitat where love can grow and nourish the relationship and the world.”
Strgar writes from her heart, unquestionably aligned with her work as CEO at Good Clean love whose mission is to increase the experience and awareness of love in the world. You will learn to look at love anew–as personal growth.
Love that Works is the essential guide for discovering and paving that path to your heart.
“We have little experience and less cultural education to help us reconcile the wild in us with our accustomed roles.” Wendy Strgar.
Strgar’s second book,Sex That Works:An Intimate Guide to Awakening Your Erotic Lifecan help you and your partner reignite that special spark. Sex That Works invites you to experience a new level of feeling and a new level of freedom in your sexuality.This book has the power to save your sex life—and your relationship. Strgar has worked with thousands of people to encourage the full awakening and expression of their erotic lifeand thoughtfully shares her expertise.
From courage and curiosity to freedom and fantasy (and five more core topics) the questions you have yearned to ask are addressed in-depth. Strgar offers healing insights, potent practices (for you alone and with your partner), and guidance to encourage the full awakening and expression of your erotic life. She believes healing ourselves in our deepest erotic space can only be a deliberate act, and doing so miraculously seems to heal everything else.