Day 183: We Determine Ourselves - Good Clean Love

Day 183: We Determine Ourselves

002255“Meanings are not determined by situations, but we determine ourselves by the meanings we give to situations.” -Alfred Adler

During the process of working with the angel investment conference, I met three kinds of entrepreneurs. There were people like me, who were in the midst of building a dream, and then there were those who referred to themselves as recovering entrepreneurs, people who were...

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Day 182: A Fresh Start - Good Clean Love

Day 182: A Fresh Start

 

“Transcendence is the power to be born anew, to make a fresh start. to turn over a new leaf, to begin with a clean slate, to enter into a state of grace, to have a second chance…Transcendence is more than just the accurate realization that the past is over. It is also a realignment of all dimensions of yourself with the very source of your life.” -Robert Fritz

Here is the most profound gift...

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Polyamory and Alternative Sexual Practices with Michele Sugg

Listen to Michele Sugg, Certified Sex Therapist and President elect of AASECT explore the sexual lifestyle and experience of polyamory and other alternative sexual practices. This provocative conversation challenges prevalent cultural views about the sexual choices and provides healthy food for thought about sexual and relationship boundaries.

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Day 181: Homeostasis - Good Clean Love

Day 181: Homeostasis

 

rf244067couple-holding-hands-posters“Learned helplessness is the giving-up reaction, the quitting response that follows from the belief that whatever you do doesn’t matter.” Arnold Schwarzenegger

I think we all struggle with some degree of learned helplessness, that doubting inner voice that is never quite satisfied. It is not the voice of evil in us that moves us to bad choices and failed relationships. Rather, it is this...

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Day 180: Getting Through the Resistance - Good Clean Love

Day 180: Getting Through the Resistance

dog_pulling“Resistance is thought transformed into feeling. Change the thought that creates the resistance, and there is no more resistance.” -Robert Conklin

 

Sometimes the only way forward is through our own resistance. There is no way around it, no talking yourself out of the doubts or disbelief that the resistance embodies; you just have to trudge into the doubts inch by inch to find the edge of...

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Day 179: Irritating Details

denise-picking-berries“After all it is those who have a deep and real inner life who are best able to deal with the irritating details of outer life” -Evelyn Underhill

I should have been feeling great after all the rich meditation time I had over the weekend. Instead it seems to have had the opposite effect and the intrusions and details of life, the seemingly never ending responsibilities that I have collected...

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Day 178: The Memory of the Heart - Good Clean Love

Day 178: The Memory of the Heart

heart-lou “Gratitude is the memory of the heart.” -French Proverb

When we store a memory in our heart and not in our mind we create a pathway for gratitude. One of my favorite new meditation techniques is called the Midline Meditation. In this meditation, practitioners focus on the physical sensation of the midline of the body, the root of our nervous system and the connection to a source of energy that...

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Day 177: Growing Up Again - Good Clean Love

Day 177: Growing Up Again

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us-fireworks-fun-with-sparkler-770059“Too many people grow up. That’s the real trouble with
the world too many people grow up. They forget. They don’t remember what it’s
like to be 12- years-old. They patronize and they treat children as inferiors.
Well, I won’t do that…” -Walt Disney

Tonight was the end-of-the-year party for my 14-year-old son
and his friends, both boys and girls....

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A Little Pink Pill

pills“Women’s desire for sexual emancipation is very worthy. I fear that it’s being hijacked by a profit-oriented industry that doesn’t really try to understand women and their sexuality.” –Leonore Tiefer

The race towards a pill to cure female sexual dysfunction continues as the major pharmaceutical players vie to create a pill that can cure the symptoms that keep women from the desire and arousal...

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