They feel different, sex and love…but together they are the best. You know it when it is love, the act penetrates deeply to center, something uncovered, released and energy connecting. It transforms energy through flesh, or maybe flesh to energy. Hard to say at that moment.

By itself, sexual acts take us far out of our ordinary mind. They are a departure from the daily in the most visceral of ways. Passionate encounters add the freedom to feel pleasure, but love- love adds the essential. Loving sex, sexual loving are the keys to the kingdom. They are the sacrament of deep and abiding commitments to listening, caring, showing up day after day. The moments which bond, in no other way possible, your promises.

These are the moments that will define your last memories of being with someone. So cherish them.