The V-Word

Preliminary O Before Penetrationby Good Clean Love StaffFebruary 08, 20133 min readI have been with the same man for a couple of years and have always had some sensitivity with sex.  We always use lubricant but even with that product, it still hurts sometimes when he comes in me too soon. The only thing that I know for sure is that when I have an orgasm before penetration, (which sometimes takes some time) I don’t have pain and can sometimes even have another one inside.  Is this normal? Congratulations. You have hit upon one of the cardinal rules of female sexual pleasure, which is normal and yet remains relatively unknown.

“Human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives.” -William James

 

Most people would probably agree that if all they needed to remember about giving and receiving love, they learned in kindergarten, they might also add the caveat that most of what they need to forget is what they learned in high school. I have noticed in my dealings with...

Show 20 features Wendy Maltz, LCSW, DST, is an internationally recognized speaker, sex therapist, and author of “Private Thoughts” and “The Sexual Healing Journey”, joins us on The Opening Door. Visit us at http://www.theopeningdoor.org/ to listen to the interview.

Wendy Maltz, LCSW, DST, is an internationally recognized speaker and sex therapist, tell us how to connect with our fantasies as healing mechanisms.
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I remember many years ago when I was deep into the juggling mothering phase of life with my four kids. Back then, I was the only driver and their lives were filled up with games, lessons and play dates. Sometimes I would wake in the early morning, anxiously trying to figure out how I could cross town and get 2 kids where they needed to go within the same hour. One of my oldest friends who was...

When we feel broken inside, everything around us seems broken, too. The sense of being not enough- good enough, capable enough, kind enough, or loving enough, pervades every interaction. Judgments and storylines that uphold them are easy to grab onto, easier still to invent. In a ridiculous attempt to heal we chase the story like an animal chasing its own tail. We spin out of control the harder we...

If you have been feeling lost and overwhelmed by a world that feels more chaotic with less real connection, don’t miss this life changing conversation with Martha Beck. Her profound wisdom based on ancient human traditions offers the tools to become your own “way-finder”, tools that will help you unlock your own potential for deep transformation in your own life and come home to your true,...

Show 19 features Martha, author of “Finding Your Way in a Wild New World” and columnist in The Oprah Magazine, joins us on The Opening Door. Visit us at http://www.theopeningdoor.org/ to listen to the interview.

Martha Beck, author and life coach, talks about the importance of finding a “tribe”.

TheOpeningDoor.org to listen to the full interview Saturday.