Day 290: Feeling Gratitude - Good Clean Love

Day 290: Feeling Gratitude

“Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.” -Marcus Tullius Cicero

Leaving the BlogWorld conference in Las Vegas and reflecting on what I learned, or maybe better put, what I continue to learn about life could be summed up in the feeling of gratitude. I didn’t walk away with any big aha moments from attending, but I did come to appreciate again, and in a new...

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Day 289: A Beautiful Point of View - Good Clean Love

Day 289: A Beautiful Point of View

All I want is to stand in a field

and to smell green,

to taste air,

to feel the earth want me,

Without all this concrete

hating me.

~Phillip Pulfrey

Probably one of the very best parts of my day is how close I live to nature. At home, nestled into an old growth forest, I experience silence regularly. I can hear birds conversing, I can hear the sound of wind through trees. I often forget how far...

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Second Chances - Good Clean Love

Second Chances

“This has been my life. I have found it worth living, and would gladly live it again if the chance were offered me.”  -Bertrand Russell

My son fell from a roof last week and just like that all of life was different. This is often how life catches us off guard; with accidents, health emergencies or just bad weather consequences. Suddenly all that we take for granted, that we hold as the fabric of...

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Day 287: Self Creation - Good Clean Love

Day 287: Self Creation

“Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” -George Bernard Shaw

I feel like I am surfacing out of the deep haze that has been totally focused on the healing of my son, who came a bit too close to the edge of life and death. He has emerged miraculously unscathed, hopefully more cautious and awake, but incredibly himself. During these moments, my life is an anchor for him...

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The Scent of Desire with Dr. Rachel Herz

Discover how The Scent of Desire with author Dr. Rachel Herz, a leading world expert on the psychology of olfaction. The connections between our sense of smell, our sexuality, emotions and memory is deep and primal. Listen to one of the world’s foremost authorities explain the in-depth connections that have hardwired our species and our relationships. This is a conversation that will make you...

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Day 286: Kindness Matters - Good Clean Love

Day 286: Kindness Matters

“This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness.” -Dalai Lama

It isn’t only in the midst of family emergencies that the kindness of others makes such a big difference in life. This is often the time we think of going out of our way for someone else, where we offer, “Anything I can...

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Day 285: Befriending Fatigue - Good Clean Love

Day 285: Befriending Fatigue

forest path

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.” -Unknown

I am exhausted.  I am working hard not to let fatigue pull me down the slippery slope of negativity.  I am deliberately turning my attention to gratitude every time I feel the tug of anger or overwhelm in the healing journey my son’s life has become.  He has made great strides and I have been honored to bear witness to his process.

 

Extrem...

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Day 284: Healing journey - Good Clean Love

Day 284: Healing journey

“Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion.” — Buddha

Healing is best accomplished when we think of it as a journey and not a destination. My son, who has become more and more lucid with time, is overcome with the enormity of the accident he suffered. The fear associated with the trauma is too big for him to hold onto and threatens to swallow him whole. These are...

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