What Kind of Lube Should I Use? - Good Clean Love

What Kind of Lube Should I Use?

Lubrication is one of the simplest and most effective ways to make intimacy more enjoyable. And even though our bodies naturally produce lubrication, it isn’t always enough. Hormonal changes, stress, medication, or simply wanting a little more glide are all good reasons to reach for lube!

 

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The Super Powers of One Girl’s Truth - Good Clean Love

The Super Powers of One Girl’s Truth

I have always preferred the company of children in my life. They speak the truth. They are present and awake to life in a way that seems to slip away as we become adults. Somewhere around the time when we become conscious of being seen, we lose the freedom to see what is actually happening around us. 
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Grief and Love: Your Path to Emotional Healing and Support - Good Clean Love

Grief and Love: Your Path to Emotional Healing and Support

I am often speechless these days. It is hard to trust the words I have known to convey what it is like to go on living my son Ian has left. My writer self, like the rest of me is cast out beyond the language that I once was able to use so effortlessly. Grief and love have swallowed not only my ability to express what is happening inside and around me, but often even the will to try. It is a desolate landscape this space, walking beside the valley of the shadow of death. Simultaneously magnetizing to those...
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Is It Love or Sex? Discover the Difference Today - Good Clean Love

Is It Love or Sex? Discover the Difference Today

Is it Sex for Love, or Love for Sex?One of the most significant gaps between partners when it comes to love or sex is the truism that traditionally, male energy opens to love through sexual connection and female energy is more apt to need love to ignite its sexuality. I remember well a conversation I had with another mother at the playground years ago, when I was urging her to not withhold her sexual response until she was satisfied with the loving attention she received from her mate. She looked at me shocked and said “why are you taking...
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Does a Woman Really Reach Her Sexual Prime in Her 30s? - Good Clean Love

Does a Woman Really Reach Her Sexual Prime in Her 30s?

I was out recently with a friend, and we started talking about sex. She told me about how, in her current relationship, she wants sex more often than her boyfriend does. We laughed about how this never would have happened when we were in our twenties. "We're in our sexual prime now," she said, and we laughed again. We hear this a lot: that a woman's sexual prime – or sometimes the term is sexual peak – happens during her thirties.
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The Question of Equality - Good Clean Love

The Question of Equality

There are some who would say that the idea of equality is nothing more than an aspirational declaration. They argue that the truth of meritocracy it is at the root of human evolution. What drives progress more than the individual’s drive for more?
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4 Ways to Equal Pleasure - Good Clean Love

4 Ways to Equal Pleasure

When we consider the efforts that women have made over generations for equality, it humbles you. Today while interviewing the president of Planned Parenthood of Southwestern Oregon, I learned that the early beginnings of the organization began with women sewing diaphragms that they procured in Italy and Japan into their petticoats. Many women were arrested when they were handing them out on the streets in New York. 

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How to Keep Your Vagina Balanced and Clean - Good Clean Love

How to Keep Your Vagina Balanced and Clean

A healthy vagina has a pH level between 3.8 and 4.5, which falls on the acidic side of the pH scale. This acidic vaginal environment is protective, and helps prevent unhealthy bacteria and yeast from multiplying too quickly, which can lead to infection. A higher vaginal pH level (above 4.5) provides the perfect environment for unhealthy bacteria to grow, which puts you at risk for infections and inflammation.
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Igniting the Flame - Good Clean Love

Igniting the Flame

A long holiday weekend is a great time to consider staying in to create your own fireworks. As much as sexuality floods the media, many couples are hard pressed to find the time and attention that a healthy and vital intimate life demands. 

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Meet Our June 10% Partner: Equality Federation - Good Clean Love

Meet Our June 10% Partner: Equality Federation

We are proud to be partnering with Equality Federation this month. Read about their work connecting LGTBQ activists across the country and how you can support gay rights in your community. 
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