What Kind of Lube Should I Use? - Good Clean Love

What Kind of Lube Should I Use?

Lubrication is one of the simplest and most effective ways to make intimacy more enjoyable. And even though our bodies naturally produce lubrication, it isn’t always enough. Hormonal changes, stress, medication, or simply wanting a little more glide are all good reasons to reach for lube!

 

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Enhance Intimacy with Sensory Experience & Natural Oils - Good Clean Love

Enhance Intimacy with Sensory Experience & Natural Oils

Our sense of smell is ancient and the source of our most powerful emotional memories. It is also the primal sensory pathway to sexual attraction, making it a key sensory experience in intimacy. And yet, we often give little attention to all that our sense of smell can evoke, in part because we have so little vocabulary for scent. Often we're limited to “it smells like…” and delineated only between pleasant and unpleasant. But, the truth is that the world of scent cognition that so often goes unrecognized actually colors all of our interactions – especially our most intimate moments.  And there...
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Daily Care Means More Pleasure - Good Clean Love

Daily Care Means More Pleasure

What is daily care of the vagina? We know how to take daily care of our face – we cleanse it, we balance our pH with toner, we moisturize it. But what’s involved with taking care of our vagina? And why take care of it every day? Let’s first address why you want to practice daily care of your lady business.

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A Vulnerable, Yet Confident Heart    - Good Clean Love

A Vulnerable, Yet Confident Heart   

With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, here is an idea that not only promises to make the holiday more enjoyable, but also has the potential to benefit your relationship for months afterward: working with the contradictions in your heart by finding balance and even synergy between seemingly opposing emotions.

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3 Ways to Not Ruin Valentine’s Day - Good Clean Love

3 Ways to Not Ruin Valentine’s Day

Most people are unaware that Valentine’s Day is one of the biggest break-up holidays of the year. It seems like an oxymoron that the holiday of love would be the one that often breaks the camel’s back, but that’s what happens when we expect a single day to make up for the benign neglect that our relationships are too often steeping in. 
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3 Ways to Impact Your Intimate Life - Good Clean Love

3 Ways to Impact Your Intimate Life

I was having lunch with one of the students from my old positivity club the other day when he surprised me by telling me that what means the most to him now is learning how to feel. I asked him what he meant, and he said, “I used to think my feelings. I thought I was ‘sad’ or ‘angry’, but it never quite registered in my body. Now, I know I am feeling when it happens in my gut or my chest. When I feel most alive is when I can’t not feel what is happening.” 
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How to Conquer Your Resolutions and Habits in the New Year - Good Clean Love

How to Conquer Your Resolutions and Habits in the New Year

According to U.S. News80 percent of us give up on our New Year’s resolutions by the second week of February. That’s a blight statistic for those of us who want to pursue growth in our lives. But I don’t mention this statistic to bring you down or to try to pop your dream bubble. I personally have loved New Year’s resolutions for as long as I can remember. 
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Five Things to Talk About on Your Next Date with Your Significant Other - Good Clean Love

Five Things to Talk About on Your Next Date with Your Significant Other

Falling in love is easy… Staying in love takes work, compassion and forgiveness.In the beginning of most relationships there’s this honeymoon phase if you will. Where you’re learning about each other, asking lots of questions, everything is new and exciting and the butterflies are flying…. This is what researchers would call the dopamine phase.
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5 Things You Might Not Know About Vaginal pH - Good Clean Love

5 Things You Might Not Know About Vaginal pH

An Acidic Environment Protects Your Vagina – The normal pH of the vagina is 3.8 to 4.5 which falls on the acidic side of the pH scale. In comparison, things like water and sperm have a more alkaline pH, in the 7 to 8 range. Your vagina tries to maintain an acidic environment because it helps ward off unhealthy bacteria and keeps yeast from multiplying too quickly.

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The Wisdom We Hold in Our Hearts - Good Clean Love

The Wisdom We Hold in Our Hearts

We believe we are making it better by shielding ourselves from our own pain. This is a fool’s errand, for the pain we refuse to feel and acknowledge doesn’t dissipate from our lacking attention, but rather collects in our heart center with a weightiness that we often cannot name or discern. So fearful are we, of the potential of a broken heart, that we inadvertently refuse to open our hearts at all. 

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