What Kind of Lube Should I Use? - Good Clean Love

What Kind of Lube Should I Use?

Lubrication is one of the simplest and most effective ways to make intimacy more enjoyable. And even though our bodies naturally produce lubrication, it isn’t always enough. Hormonal changes, stress, medication, or simply wanting a little more glide are all good reasons to reach for lube!

 

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Hot Off The Presses: Good Clean Love In The News - Good Clean Love

Hot Off The Presses: Good Clean Love In The News

June’s been a good month for press for Good Clean Love! Both Cosmopolitan and Mic.com highlighted how great it is that sexual health is becoming a family business and more importantly, a conversation that is perfectly okay to have among family members. Didn’t catch it? Check these out:

First up, Founder Wendy Strgar’s daughter talks to Cosmopolitan about what it was like growing up in this very...

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Familial Love: Life Lessons from My Father - Good Clean Love

Familial Love: Life Lessons from My Father

My father has always been a quiet, introspective man. Though he says little, the things he says say a lot. His presence around the words he chooses to speak say even more. But my father is a lot more than just quiet and introspective. He's generous. He's kind. He's hardworking and he's curious about the world. His curiosity is one of the life lessons he has imparted to us, showing the value of continuous learning.
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Flesh - Good Clean Love

Flesh

We describe our food as having flesh, making clear its libidinal qualities–we put this flesh in our mouths, publicly take it into our bodies, make more of ourselves by its nutriment. Our food’s flesh is made of what it has digested–water, sun, minerals in the soil, other flesh. Meat has flesh; so does fruit; fruit can be “meaty,” and a well-cooked mushroom might be meaty, too. Eggplant, tomato,...

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The Wonder of Boys and Men - Good Clean Love

The Wonder of Boys and Men

“…that a boy is, in large part, hard wired to be who he is.  We can’t change who he is.  We can teach him how to develop who he is with confidence, and toward a direction that contributes to our world.”   -Michael Gurian

Boys are different than girls and, fundamentally so, from the moment of conception. Beginning with earliest brain development, evolving into core function, what makes the male...

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Caitlyn Jenner- The Courage To Be Oneself - Good Clean Love

Caitlyn Jenner- The Courage To Be Oneself

“I’m not doing this to be interesting. I’m doing this to live.” -Caitlyn Jenner

I have been following Bruce Jenner’s transition since it first appeared in People magazine months ago. Emerging from the Kardashian empire, it seemed like just another press stunt, but the recent Vanity Fair cover of Bruce’s total transformation into Caitlyn at age 65 is actually nothing short of stupendous courage....

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Abiding in Intimacy: Making Love Sustainable talks with a Dudeist - Good Clean Love

Abiding in Intimacy: Making Love Sustainable talks with a Dudeist

After we posted “Relaxing: The ‘Big Lebowski’ Approach,” we got an email from a man named Gary Silvia. He introduced himself as a Reverend in the Church of the Latter-Day Dude, and said he thought Making Love Sustainable readers might be interested in knowing more about Dudeism and its relaxed approach to living.

We agreed, and we emailed Reverend Silvia some questions asking more about Dudeism...

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Healing Sex Part 1: How Sex Can Heal Us - Good Clean Love

Healing Sex Part 1: How Sex Can Heal Us

“If we could heal only one thing in the human experience and it was our relationship to our sexual selves, everything else would heal as a consequence.” -Wendy Strgar

Sex is at the beginning and end of who we are. Indeed, we are each the most profound products of the sexual act, and the more we learn about our fragile, erotic selves, the more obvious it is that this is the center around which...

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Dedicated to Love and Positivity - Good Clean Love

Dedicated to Love and Positivity

“Patience and persistence have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish.  A little knowledge that acts is worth infinitely more than much knowledge that is idle.” -John Quincy Adams

Most of the time when we begin a project, we have no real idea of where it is going to take us or if we will ever truly get across the finish line that we set at the beginning. So it...

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Relaxing: the “Big Lebowski” Approach - Good Clean Love

Relaxing: the “Big Lebowski” Approach

It’s difficult to relax on the Internet, especially social media — Twitter and Facebook are like open mics where everyone is simultaneously speaking their opinions about everything, all the time. The pressure to have an opinion and to share it in new, cleverer and louder ways can be quickly exhausting. I find myself forgetting what I really care about, losing track of my own feelings, and becoming...

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