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Preliminary O Before Penetrationby Good Clean Love StaffFebruary 08, 20133 min readI have been with the same man for a couple of years and have always had some sensitivity with sex.  We always use lubricant but even with that product, it still hurts sometimes when he comes in me too soon. The only thing that I know for sure is that when I have an orgasm before penetration, (which sometimes takes some time) I don’t have pain and can sometimes even have another one inside.  Is this normal? Congratulations. You have hit upon one of the cardinal rules of female sexual pleasure, which is normal and yet remains relatively unknown.

If you have ever felt like a complete idiot when it comes to creating healthy relationships or using tantra techniques to take your intimate life to the next level,  don’t miss this talk with Dr Judywho has been helping people solve their relationship and intimacy issues for decades on her own syndicated radio show. Whether offering tips for working with orgasmic challenges or emotional hurdles,...

“Pleasure is the object, duty and the goal of all rational creatures.”  -Voltaire

 

Orgasm transforms our physical bodies into a vessel of energy. Our cellular physical boundaries fade as our bodies become the vehicle that transports us into experiences that connect us to universal energy, our spiritual source. Studieshave confirmed that as many as one in twenty individuals experience a...

Rethink what orgasm means for you in this provocative conversation with Mikaya Heart, author of The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women. Explore female sexuality from a perspective that normalizes the diversity of women's experiences— including the wide range of physical experience, emotional release and spiritual recognition that comes through orgasm. Discover new ways to find your capacity for pleasure and ways to communicate it to your lover. Understand your connection to the erotic and witness how that enhances your connection to life.

“The great thing about getting older is that you don’t lose all the other ages you’ve been.”  –Madeleine L’Engle

 

Growing up your orgasmic potential is where the meaning of maturity gets really interesting. Befriending and relating to our erotic selves is a lifelong process that expands our relationship to pleasure and matures our access to and experience of orgasm. Like millions of other women,...

“Orgasm is what happens when the body takes over.” -Betty Dodson

Our orgasmic potential begins with our capacity and curiosity to explore our arousal mechanism. Recent studies have actually demonstrated that working with your physical arousal response can actually instigate sexual desire, rather than the reverse of waiting for desire to jumpstart arousal. This is heartening news because tapping...

“The pleasure of living and the pleasure of the orgasm are identical. Extreme orgasm anxiety forms the basis of the general fear of life. ” -Wilhelm ReichOrgasm is the most intimate human expression of life force available to us, and whether you are among the lucky ones who know it as the physical height of your erotic experience or are among the many who are looking for the gate in, it is a currency that affects us all. Cultivating an orgasmic life involves understanding this powerful experience.

by Tinamarie Bernard

When I read a recent blog by Nicole Daedone, founder of OneTaste.com, I had two immediate questions: Are that many women really putting on moan shows when they are having sex, and if so, why?

Here’s what Nicole had to say about faking orgasmic pleasure, which basically, “amounts to lying to your partner. It prioritizes thinking (I should be doing this, I wonder how he’s...

by Anastasia Strgar

Falling in love is so great, isn’t it? You can’t see the other person’s faults and you are merely open and engaged in their best qualities. They are funny, charming, honest, respectful and truly interested in getting to know you… You want to be a better person for them because they’re so awesome.

Unfortunately, it can’t stay this way forever. Eventually, the veil gets torn...