The V-Word

“A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future.” -Lewis B Smedes

I still get stuck on some memories. It is almost as though my interpretation of some of my childhood is etched into my brain and each time I speak with or about certain old characters in my life, the old story...

“Happiness is a matter of one’s most ordinary and everyday mode of consciousness being busy and lively and unconcerned with self.” ~Iris Murdoch

Most of us share a common mis-perception about happiness. We expect to identify it through how we feel rather than viewing it as the perceptual frame of reference that it is. Oddly you could be quite happy at a work task and not feel happy at the moment...

Prostate cancer is the leading cancer among men world wide effecting over 700,000 men annually. It is also a leading cause of sexual dysfunction for men and their partners. Listen as Rabbi Ed Weinsberg shares his own journey of healing and explores the wide capacity for intimacy that this illness generates. If you know someone who is facing the life changing impacts of illness, this show will...

On my way home from the adult entertainment trade show, my positivity was not only intact, but improved. I haven’t attended this tradeshow in the last five years, focusing my marketing efforts on educating the natural and medical markets about the importance of healthy and clean intimacy products, as well as clarifying the steps for a healthy libido to thrive.

Five years ago, before all the free...

It is easy to confuse the order of these three life action verbs in our culture that often confuses contentment and stuff. I am in the city of lights for the annual adult entertainment show and I am amazed at the enormity of our human capacity to create and manifest. It is a city decorated with all of the world’s greatest monuments and treasures that drives the message “to have” like none other.

I...

Start the year off with increasing the fun, Deep Fun in fact with our guest, Bernie DeKoven a certified Fun Coach.   He has spent his life understanding the nature of play and creating opportunities for the Well Played Gameto transform your relationship to love and life. There is a great deal to be learned about how we can live more satisfying lives by introducing and sustaining more fun in them....

“Don’t let your mind bully your body into believing it must carry the burden of its worries. ” ~Astrid Alauda

John Gottman described the experience of total overwhelm as being emotionally flooded. He employed the term in his explanation of what happens to many couples in the heat of an argument. When things get intense and we are overcome by our emotional state we lose our ability to communicate...

Although this is the day of new beginnings for me it is also a point of reflection about how to sustain the positive changes that have begun to reinvent my life. Years ago when I was 20-something I lived in France and memorized the fifty principles of miracles that make up the first several pages in the Course in Miracles. One of my good friends and I learned them all and had to keep repeating...