What Kind of Lube Should I Use? - Good Clean Love

What Kind of Lube Should I Use?

Lubrication is one of the simplest and most effective ways to make intimacy more enjoyable. And even though our bodies naturally produce lubrication, it isn’t always enough. Hormonal changes, stress, medication, or simply wanting a little more glide are all good reasons to reach for lube!

 

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Day 180: Getting Through the Resistance - Good Clean Love

Day 180: Getting Through the Resistance

dog_pulling“Resistance is thought transformed into feeling. Change the thought that creates the resistance, and there is no more resistance.” -Robert Conklin

 

Sometimes the only way forward is through our own resistance. There is no way around it, no talking yourself out of the doubts or disbelief that the resistance embodies; you just have to trudge into the doubts inch by inch to find the edge of...

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Day 179: Irritating Details

denise-picking-berries“After all it is those who have a deep and real inner life who are best able to deal with the irritating details of outer life” -Evelyn Underhill

I should have been feeling great after all the rich meditation time I had over the weekend. Instead it seems to have had the opposite effect and the intrusions and details of life, the seemingly never ending responsibilities that I have collected...

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Day 178: The Memory of the Heart - Good Clean Love

Day 178: The Memory of the Heart

heart-lou “Gratitude is the memory of the heart.” -French Proverb

When we store a memory in our heart and not in our mind we create a pathway for gratitude. One of my favorite new meditation techniques is called the Midline Meditation. In this meditation, practitioners focus on the physical sensation of the midline of the body, the root of our nervous system and the connection to a source of energy that...

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Day 177: Growing Up Again - Good Clean Love

Day 177: Growing Up Again

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us-fireworks-fun-with-sparkler-770059“Too many people grow up. That’s the real trouble with
the world too many people grow up. They forget. They don’t remember what it’s
like to be 12- years-old. They patronize and they treat children as inferiors.
Well, I won’t do that…” -Walt Disney

Tonight was the end-of-the-year party for my 14-year-old son
and his friends, both boys and girls....

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A Little Pink Pill

pills“Women’s desire for sexual emancipation is very worthy. I fear that it’s being hijacked by a profit-oriented industry that doesn’t really try to understand women and their sexuality.” –Leonore Tiefer

The race towards a pill to cure female sexual dysfunction continues as the major pharmaceutical players vie to create a pill that can cure the symptoms that keep women from the desire and arousal...

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Day 176: Money Matters - Good Clean Love

Day 176: Money Matters

swimmoney“Money is like manure. You have to spread it around or it smells. ~J. Paul Getty

Ever since I won the Willamette Angel Conference, my relationship to money has been shifting. I find myself in meetings among some of the most well respected venture and angel investors having conversations about cap tables, series A and B rounds, among dozens of other serious financial terms that I recognize...

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Day 175: In Praise of Boredom - Good Clean Love

Day 175: In Praise of Boredom

girl_daydreaming“All man’s troubles come from not knowing how to sit still in one room.” ~Blaise Pascal

It is summer at last, the season of long lazy afternoons and empty idle hours of wonder. I remember well the endless afternoons of ice pops and sprinklers, taking long walks to see if anything interesting could be found in the neighborhood. This was well before the digital revolution and if you wanted to...

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Reinventing the Visual Sex Ed Industry with Mark Schoen

Mark Schoen, an award-winning sexual education filmmaker and founder of SexSmartFilms.com, shares his insights and unique perspective on the differences between sexual health films and pornographic content. His ideas of building a visual frame of reference that can both expand your capacity to communicate and understand your sexuality will change the way you look at sexual content and even your...

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Day 174- Rooting For the Underdog - Good Clean Love

Day 174- Rooting For the Underdog

slovenija“Everybody likes the underdog, because everybody feels like the underdog. No matter how successful you are, you always think, No one’s being nice enough to me!” -Kate Beckinsale

This year’s Soccer World Cup has been riveting as the upsets between highly seeded countries and the lower ranked has continued to surprise everyone in almost every bracket. Perhaps none has been so discussed as the...

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