What Kind of Lube Should I Use? - Good Clean Love

What Kind of Lube Should I Use?

Lubrication is one of the simplest and most effective ways to make intimacy more enjoyable. And even though our bodies naturally produce lubrication, it isn’t always enough. Hormonal changes, stress, medication, or simply wanting a little more glide are all good reasons to reach for lube!

 

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Day 202: Remembering My Own Advice - Good Clean Love

Day 202: Remembering My Own Advice

“Marriage is not a noun; it’s a verb. It isn’t something you get. It’s something you do. It’s the way you love your partner every day.” Barbara De Angelis

I have told more people than I can count the one irreplaceable piece of advice that has kept my marriage going for decades. Sometimes, like today, I have to go inside myself with a pick axe and dig it out for me. The advice came from Bob, the...

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Day 201: Grateful Nature - Good Clean Love

Day 201: Grateful Nature

“I only went out for a walk and finally concluded to stay out till sundown, for going out, I found, was really going in.” ~John Muir

The beauty of the earth is an invitation to the felt sense of gratitude; not the kind that you think of, but the sort that inhabits your body and reminds you how good it is to be alive. Any experience of nature has the power to heal and give strength like a direct...

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Day 200: The Courage to Change - Good Clean Love

Day 200: The Courage to Change

“Any change, even a change for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts.” — Arnold Bennett

I often hear the voice of my product designer in my head of late. Just over a year ago, he answered an ad I placed on Craigslist for design help. When we sat talking about where I was and what I wanted, he waited for me to finish and looked me in the eye and asked “Can you change,...

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Day 199: Paint Colors - Good Clean Love

Day 199: Paint Colors

“Why do two colors, put one next to the other, sing? Can one really explain this? No. Just as one can never learn how to paint.” -Pablo Picasso

I am repainting the house this summer and today was the day to choose the colors. I have been thinking of changing its color of since the day I bought it five years ago. Although I have never known the right color for the house, I have worked to live with...

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Day 198: Moments of Awe

“Gratitude bestows reverence, allowing us to encounter everyday epiphanies, those transcendent moments of awe that change forever how we experience life and the world.” -John Milton

Long ago, when I first imagined selling love products I called them Sacred Moments. The first labels had a picture of a lit candle surrounded by ancient quotes on the power of physical love to heal the world....

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Hierarchy of Sexual Development

Most things in life are developmental. Human lifespan has programmed continuous growth and maturation into our genetic code, which acts as an imperative that makes skill building one of the richest aspects of daily living. Nowhere is this truer than in our foundational relationship to our sexuality.

“There are very few human beings who receive the truth, complete and staggering, by instant...

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Day 197: Freedom Has a Lot of Faces - Good Clean Love

Day 197: Freedom Has a Lot of Faces

“Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.” -Mahatma Gandhi

Today should not have required so much effort to stay positive about the changes in life. The interesting thing is how something that you really wanted presents limitations that you didn’t include in the vision of having your desired outcome. Change feels harder than you think even when you...

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Day 196: “Now I am” - Good Clean Love

Day 196: “Now I am”

field“I am letting go of my idea of time. I see that eternal life is not a question of “I will be forever,” but of “Now I am.” Eternity is time dying in me.” -Jean Lanier

Tomorrow is the second anniversary of the death of a dear friend. It is hard to believe that so much time could have gone by, and in some crazy way, we still keep expecting him to come home, as though he has been gone on a long...

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Inside the Natural Health Industry with Frank Lampe

Listen as Frank Lampe, one of the founders of the LOHAS movement (Lifestyles of Health and Sustainability) walks us through the early development and corporatization of the natural product industry and alternative health care. Frank has been a leader in the publishing side of the business for over a decade and has witnessed the movement towards natural health and healing in media and retail...

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