What Kind of Lube Should I Use? - Good Clean Love

What Kind of Lube Should I Use?

Lubrication is one of the simplest and most effective ways to make intimacy more enjoyable. And even though our bodies naturally produce lubrication, it isn’t always enough. Hormonal changes, stress, medication, or simply wanting a little more glide are all good reasons to reach for lube!

 

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What is Healthy Sex in Marriage?

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Question:

My question is pretty vague! What does it look like to have a healthy sex life in marriage?

The background to my question is: My husband of 18 years is working on getting over a pornography addiction. I have some sexual abuse issues from childhood. So we are both messed up. Initially when we married I tried to be fun and sexy and would not get much response so I often felt rejected. He’d...

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The Female Ejaculation - Good Clean Love

The Female Ejaculation

Question: I have a new partner who seems to pee when she is about to orgasm. She is really embarrassed about this, and I’m not sure what to do either. We’re really into each other and I don’t want this to hold us back from being sexual together! Any advice?
– Linda, 25, AR

Answer: This is great news!

It is time to celebrate, not worry. Most likely what your partner is experiencing a release of...

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A Lack of Lubrication

Question:
For the past month or so every time my husband and I have sex I can’t cum. What is wrong with me? There’s always a lack of natural lubrication. We also have a 3-month-old baby. Thanks.
–Melissa, 31, NM

Answer:
As a sexuality educator for Good Clean Love I get lots of questions about vaginal lubrication. Lots of women and their partners find vaginal lubrication rather enigmatic — and...

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First Love Yourself - Good Clean Love

First Love Yourself

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I have been thinking about self love lately, and not just the emotional kind. I just recently learned that the month of May was recently named National Masturbation month. Certainly it is a topic that could do with a little airing out, if based only on its checkered history alone. It wasn’t all that long ago that boys were tortured with all kinds of strange contraptions to stop them from...

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Regenerating Your Life- Start in Your Bedroom - Good Clean Love

Regenerating Your Life- Start in Your Bedroom

Walking into your bedroom should make your heart rate slow down. It should be the place where you sigh deeply and your whole body relaxes. The bedroom is your nest....
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Sex Today: Essential Insights You Need to Know

Sex TodayWell, it made it to the front page of most newspapers again today, the governor of New York was caught in a sting of an elite, top-priced prostitute ring. On the day before Valentine’s Day, no less. His career in a shambles, Mr. Clean, as he was referred to for his corruption-fighting administration, has fallen among the rest of us mortals. It probably won’t be the end of his career. After all, it was only 8 short years ago that Hillary was the wronged wife, and now look at her—putting on the pants in the family to bring the commander-in-chief role home again.
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Emotional Economy

We can catch someone else’s feelings with the same speed as we can catch a cold from them. We live in an invisible emotional economy where the moods of the people around you – good and bad become the basis of the emotional transactions of your day. A day full of people who are optimistic and happy is likely going to be remembered as a good day, just as a day with more than one conflict or...

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Loveology Minute

Hope you enjoy this new series of posts: Loveology Minutes with brief thoughts on how to keep your heart open and your love sustainable. Send in other great ideas or quotes and we will highlight them…

“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage..” -Anais Nin

Nowhere is this thought more true than in our capacity to find love in response to life. Opening our heart to the range of...

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Let the Real Games Begin

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If you were one of the millions waiting for the last minutes of yesterday’s Superbowl, then you saw the million dollar invitation by Victoria’s Secret. A bigger-than-life beautiful girl, dropping the ball and mouthing the words that millions of guys dream of hearing. I have to admit it was tasteful and said what we all know, that after the sports events are over- the real game is in our own...

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