Making Love Sustainable

Learn how to tackle the challenging issues of sustaining passionate sexuality inside healthy intimate relationships. See your most important relationships with fresh eyes and increase your innate ability to love better. Gather innovative tips you need to build the concrete skills that will improve the quality of your inner life and personal relationships.

  • Apr212017

    Finding Time for Love

    “There is more to life than increasing its speed.”  Mohandas K. Gandhi As I write this advice about love, I…

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  • Apr142017

    Creating a Culture of Consent

    “A consent culture is a society that values and promotes consensual sex, condemns rape and supports survivors of sexual violence…”…

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  • Apr072017

    Welcoming the Spring with a Kiss

    “Kisses are a better fate than wisdom.”  e.e. cummings Days are becoming balmy, daylight lasts into evening, and the flowering…

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  • Mar302017

    Why I Make Good Lube

    “There may be nothing more joyful, more intimate than the wonder of two bodies discovering the wonder of gliding smoothly…

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  • Mar242017

    Growing Into Your Sexual Self

    “Most people are mirrors, reflecting the moods and emotions of the times; few are windows, bringing light to bear on…

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  • Mar102017

    Reigniting pleasure

    I spent last weekend with hundreds of new mothers and their babies at the Mommycon Chicago conference. I was invited…

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  • Feb242017

    Our Time to Love the Earth

    “The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the…

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  • Feb172017

    3 Rules To Make Up A Valentine’s Day Disaster

    Didn’t have the Valentine’s Day you hoped for? Here’s 3 Rules for not making it worse. Post Valentine’s Day can…

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  • Feb102017

    3 Ways Not To Be Disappointed This Valentine’s Day

    “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” Lao Tzu There are more…

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  • Feb032017

    3 Ways To Welcome Non-Ordinary Sex

    “The way you make love is the way God will be with you.”  Rumi One of the great mysteries in life…

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  • Jan272017

    4 Ways To Turn On Arousal

    ‘I tell you, the more I think, the more I feel that there is nothing more truly artistic than to…

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  • Jan202017

    4 Ways to Clarify our Pleasure

    “More important than the quest for certainty is the quest for clarity.” -Francois Gautier While we all want pleasure, most of…

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  • Jan162017

    Own Your Orgasm: Gender, Pleasure, and Closing The Gap

    When it comes to sex, our society has two narratives for young women. It begins with the basics: contraceptives and…

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  • Jan132017

    Seeking Orgasmic Pleasure

    “The pleasure of living and the pleasure of the orgasm are identical. Extreme orgasm anxiety forms the basis of the…

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  • Jan062017

    Seeking True Pleasure

    “Pleasure is the object, duty and the goal of all rational creatures.”  -Voltaire The New Year is a good time…

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  • Dec302016

    Beginning Again

    “In the beginner’s mind there are many possibilities; in the expert’s mind there are few.” Shunryu Suzuki. There is a concept I…

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  • Dec222016

    The Gift Of Rest

    “What is without periods of rest will not endure.”   Ovid Rest and recuperation is the only thing on my Christmas…

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  • Dec162016

    Attending To Relationship After Baby

    “Marriage is not 50-50, Divorce is 50-50.  Marriage has to be 100-100. It isn’t dividing everything in half, it’s giving…

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  • Dec132016

    Q&A with Dame Products: Closing the Pleasure Gap with Innovation

    Just two years ago, Dame Products launched Eva, the first “truly wearable” couples’ vibrator. Featuring two flexible wings, the curious…

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  • Dec092016

    Attending To Pain

    “Remember that pain has this most excellent quality. If prolonged it cannot be severe, and if severe it cannot be…

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